How to make the correct decision—stay put or emigrate?
A
biblical perspective of emigration
Grass is greener over the fence?
Migration
is as old as the hills. Hard times had driven our forefathers from distant
shores to our nation. Many landed here with just their clothing on their backs.
And we are grateful to them that we can find a place under the Malaysian sun.
Today
the migratory wave continues, albeit for different reasons. Various push and pull factors have caused Christians to contemplate emigration. Some
are unhappy with the way our country is being run while others bemoan the declining
standard in schools.
And
so these bright professionals, businessmen and entrepreneurs leave the country,
thinking that a more comfortable lifestyle and other benefits—social security,
better jobs, educational opportunities and healthcare—await them in a foreign
land.
Many
feel that God has called them to settle in more advanced countries such as
Australia, UK and the USA. Why? Is God less compassionate towards poor
countries such as Laos or Myanmar?
Though
we can serve God anywhere, there must be a reason why God destined us to be
born in Malaysia (Acts 17:26). We should be grateful that we live in a multiracial
society with a rich culture. Our beaches, hill resorts and delectable array of food
draw tourists from all over the world. Seldom hit by major natural disasters and
endowed with abundant natural resources, our country is indeed blessed.
Let’s
allow scripture to percolate through our minds as we consider the issue of
migration.
WHY
PEOPLE MIGRATE
Migration
is a recurring theme in the Bible. Abraham
obeyed when he was called to go to a land of promise. By faith, he left home,
unsure where he was going. Jacob and his family moved to Egypt because
of famine. Joseph fled for safety to Egypt with Mary and the child Jesus, being
warned by an angel of Herod’s evil intentions. When Jerusalem fell, Daniel was
taken captive to serve the king in Babylon. Persecution caused believers in the
early church to be scattered, thus advancing the cause of the Gospel.
Unless
relocation is a response to a definite call of God as in Abraham’s case or it
has been forced upon us due to famine, persecution or other extreme factors, we
really need to think hard before uprooting ourselves.
Are
we facing famine like in North Korea? Is our economy in shambles like that of
Greece’s? Are we anywhere close to a banana republic or war-torn Syria?
In
my opinion, we should maintain the status quo—stay back—until God calls us or
extreme factors push us. The question “Should we stay put or emigrate?” should
be replaced by something more fundamental: “Do we sense God’s definite calling to
relocate?”
KINGDOM
VALUES
Turning
to the Lord’s Prayer, we find that “Thy kingdom come” precedes “Give us this
day our daily bread”. Let’s seek to advance His kingdom first. Let’s commit our
fears and anxieties to God for He knows our needs and promises to meet all of
them (Matthew 6:33, Proverbs 3:5-6). Why be so anxious about our future?
Isn’t
making life choices about honouring God? We have to let God lead. We are no
longer in the driver’s seat: “LORD, I know that people's lives are not their
own; it is not for them to direct their steps” (Jeremiah 10:23).
Some
believers even advise their children not to return after completing their
studies overseas, thinking they have a brighter future there.
When
we allow various push (such as crime)
and pull (such as educational
opportunities) factors to cloud our thinking, we are starting out on the wrong
footing. Neither a knee-jerk response to adverse factors nor a desire for
greater comfort and security should drive us to emigrate.
IS
BLESSING EVERYTHING?
Though
obedience often comes with blessings, the path He would have us tread is not
necessarily one marked by blessings. The ultimate determining factor is not
blessings but God’s will (Luke 9:23, Luke 12:15).
When
Lot surveyed the land, his physical senses
told him he should move to a well-watered, productive area (Genesis 13:10). But
what seems appealing to the eyes may not reflect the Spirit’s leading. And
those led by the Holy Spirit are the sons of God (Romans 8:14, Acts 16: 6-9).
Moses
cherished God’s presence—even more
than blessings—in all his endeavours. If God’s presence did not go with him, he
would not advance towards the Promised Land (Exodus 33:15).
PROS
AND CONS
It
is wise to discuss the pros and cons of emigration with those who have relocated
or returned home after a stint overseas. If possible, spend a month abroad to
experience what it means to live in a foreign land where we would have to make
new friends and adapt to differences in culture, climate and cuisine.
Problems
at home might be replaced by other challenges in the new environment. Do you
have any qualms about letting your children watch adult content on TV? Can you
live with laws against child abuse which forbid spanking your children? Think
you have been unfairly treated at home? Be prepared for discrimination of a
different kind. A financial controller in Malaysia had to become a bookkeeper
overseas. Are you used to having maids and gardeners at home? Be more
self-reliant when you move.
WHERE
THE NEED IS GREATER
Besides
calling, need is another important consideration whenever the issue of
relocation crops up. Though a need
does not necessarily constitute a call,
we should honestly ask ourselves whether the needs are greater at home or the
place we intend to relocate.
If
we perceive our nation is going downhill, shouldn’t we be part of the solution
instead of running away? As agents of change, we can slow down or halt the
slide. It’s encouraging to note that many believers have joined NGOs, activist
groups and political parties to make a difference in this nation.
Believers
who emigrate often hold key leadership positions in church, universities,
politics and government. As such, our country will not only be facing a brain
drain but a shortfall of leaders. If the dearth of leaders in urban areas is
bad, the shortage in rural areas is even more acute.
However,
this doesn’t necessarily imply that believers aren’t called to relocate to more advanced
countries. A nuclear physicist interested in research may have to emigrate
because of lack of career opportunities at home. A missionary might be burdened
to share the Good News in developed but spiritually dark nations.
FLOURISH
WHERE PLANTED
The
grass often seems greener on the other side of the fence. Truth be told, the
grass is greener wherever we choose to water it.
“If
it is to be, it is up to me.” We can make it good in life wherever
we are. Just take root and flourish wherever we are planted. Remember the Malaysian
CEO whose catchy company tagline is “Now everyone can fly”?
But then again, if
we believe we are strangers and exiles on this earth, we are not just thinking
how we can be high fliers. Our thoughts are primarily focused on a heavenly city—rather than a far flung man-made city where life is perceived
to more secure and comfortable (Colossians 3:1-2, Hebrews 11:13-16).
The above article was first published in Asian Beacon magazine, December 2013, issue 45.6
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QUOTES
RELATED TO MIGRATION
"Firstly we have to realise
that our security in this life can only come from God."
"The second thing to realise is
that life’s final fulfillment is not found in material comfort."
"The third and most important
thing to grasp is the question of God’s will in our lives."
Rev Dr Hwa Yung,
Former Bishop of the Methodist
Church, Malaysia.
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"Migration is symptomatic
of lack of trust in God who has
placed us in this country for good
and not for evil. Barring a sovereign
word, every migration speaks of our
unhappiness with our lot in life in
the country God has placed us in.
We worship our happiness rather
than
obey the will of God."
Rev
Eu Hong Seng,
Chairman,
NECF Malaysia.
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“The
most important thing to consider is not having the best quality of life
on earth but to fulfill God’s desire.”
Dr
Choong Yee Fong, consultant ophthalmic surgeon who gave up a flourishing career
in UK to return to Malaysia.
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“If
I leave Malaysia, it will not be because of worsened circumstances or for
money. I will only leave if I sense a bigger calling such as impacting lives at
an international level.”
Yeo
Bee Yin
State
assemblywoman for Damansara Utama, Petaling Jaya.
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Unless relocation is a response to a definite call of God (as in Abraham’s case) or it has been forced
upon us due to famine, persecution or other extreme factors, we really need to
think hard before uprooting ourselves.
The question “Should we stay put or
emigrate?” should be replaced by something more fundamental: “Do we sense God’s
definite calling to relocate?” Neither a knee-jerk response to adverse factors
nor a desire for greater comfort and security should drive us to emigrate.
However,
this doesn’t necessarily imply that believers aren’t called to relocate to more advanced
countries. A nuclear physicist interested in research may have to emigrate
because of lack of career opportunities at home. A missionary might be burdened
to share the Good News in developed but spiritually dark nations.
Dr
Lim Poh Ann
Former
editor, Asian Beacon magazine